HEY, LOVE CAN'T FIX EVERYTHING

This was the very shocking closing remark that ended an article I worked on recently on Time Magazine. It really got me thinking so hard, so I decided to share a few thoughts on this. Any love that blinds you to people's(especially your fiances' or fiancée) irresponsibilities is stupidity. There are going to be times when love should make you walk away from certain persons whose presence in your life is a volcano waiting to explode.

1. Parallel Belief System: Do you think love can fix a guy that does not believe Jesus Christ has anything to offer? If you are dating any girl now who thinks God is one of those things, when you are married, your parlour will certainly become the alter of Baal.

2. Substance Abuser: Anybody that uses substances, alcohol, drugs(marijuana, cocaine etc) is living on mortgaged organs. Love will not stop those substances for coming after his organs in due time. By the time you eventually marry, those organs could even pack up when you need them most

3. Iron Mike Tyson Syndrome: Anybody that is quick with her/his fist, will kill you one day, love not withstanding. So, when you get married to an iron mike Tyson, be rest assured that very soon, your family will certainly come and bury your corpse untimely

4. Night Hawk: You are enjoying all the constant night out now, it's fun, abi? Don't think love will make this person change when you are finally married. You better begin to prepare for very lonely nights with the kids because your kids are always going to fill up his/her gaps

You can never change an adult. If you still want to go ahead to marry, you better begin to pray for grace because you just got yourself A BIG THORN IN THE FLESH!